Men Yell at Me

Men Yell at Me

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The enshittification of dating apps

App burnout is the symptom — not the disease

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lyz
May 08, 2024
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My algorithm wants me to find love. The front page of my Instagram regularly recommends tips and advice from dating coaches alongside screenshots of dating app horror stories. No matter that I only “like” Maggie Rogers and pet-related content; Reels eventually offers up advice from “experts” who tell me how to find a match by approaching dating like a b…

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