Men Yell at Me

Share this post

Dingus of the Week: Sparkling Content Curation

lyz.substack.com

Discover more from Men Yell at Me

Written from a journalist in a red state, this newsletter is personal, political, sometimes funny and always raises hell.
Over 39,000 subscribers
Continue reading
Sign in
Dingus of the Week

Dingus of the Week: Sparkling Content Curation

Who are you calling a “book ban”?!

lyz
Feb 24, 2023
174
Share this post

Dingus of the Week: Sparkling Content Curation

lyz.substack.com
97
Share

Across the country, state legislators are taking up bills that would remove books about Black or LGBTQ people from school libraries. This isn’t a particularly new fight. People have been pearl-clutching about what children are allowed to read since our culture decided children should be allowed to read and not spend their short dirty little lives wasting away in a shirtwaist factory.

But it’s a fight that has taken up a renewed enthusiasm, along with a certain logic that thinks maybe it’s okay to let kids live and die in a shirtwaist factory. As long as it’s an American factory.

I know what you are thinking. “Removing books from libraries with specific content that certain religious or political groups might object to? Isn’t that a book ban?”

You absolute dingus. A book ban? Didn’t you know? It’s only a book ban if it comes from the Ban region of France. Otherwise, it’s just sparkling content curation.

If I specifically target a type of person I don’t like and try to erase their existence from the earth beginning with books and ending with bans on drag performances, that’s not homophobia. You silly goose. That’s just called parental rights.

You might not understand this because you, unlike me, haven’t created life. I have created life. TWO WHOLE BEAUTIFUL LIVES. I am basically a god because my uterus performed the Biblically ordained function of heterosexual reproduction, which means: I had disappointing sex with a man who can’t even spell clitoris much less find one. Just as Jesus wants. So, I’m channeling that disappointment into controlling everyone and everything around me. And what I need to control are my children. You might say they are humans and allowed to determine their own course of life. But that’s because you’d be a horrible parent. My dream for my child is to play volleyball at a lightly accredited Christian college and then become a stay-at-home mom living in Chanhassen, Minnesota. There, she will drink a little too much and be a #WineMom and puts her kids on Instagram with uncomfortable captions like #BoyMom. And then, she will later lose thousands of dollars in a multi-level marketing scheme. 

And my son? I want him to grow into the kind of man who doesn’t notice the counters are sticky. And when you say to him, “these counters are sticky” he will reply, “Don’t nag me.” I want him to be the kind of man who represses all emotion and then makes his partner do all the emotional labor. Also, he works in finance.

What I am saying is that neither of them needs to know what a labia is. Even though one possesses a labia and the other might have to deal with the presence of one. I don’t care. In fact, if my kid so much as knows that a labia exists, it will violate my god-given parental right to lock that kid into a mental cage until they are so miserable, they flee from home at age 18 and only return once a year to get really drunk on Josh Cellars wine at Thanksgiving.

It’s only a book ban if it comes from the Ban region of France. Otherwise, it’s just sparkling content curation.

Just because a group of individuals, politicians, and organizations wants to remove books from libraries, school reading lists, or bookstore shelves because they object to their content, ideas, or themes. Just because that is the very definition of a book ban, doesn’t mean that’s a book ban. It’s just a reduction in the amount of weight we put on shelves. That’s all. And sure, does it just so happen those specific books are about Black or LGBTQ people?  That’s just a coincidence that was specifically legislated into existence.

You say book ban. I say book reductions. After all, shouldn’t kids read a little less?  I mean, god forbid they learn about slavery or being gay. They might grow up smart and happy. And we cannot have that, that’s dangerous.

Yes, we do have guns in our home.1 Why do you ask?

Men Yell at Me
Who Gets To Know?
This is the midweek edition of Men Yell at Me, a newsletter about the places where our politics and our personhood collide. This week’s essay is something I’ve been thinking a lot about. It’s about growing up Evangelical homeschooled, about book bans, and protecting our children…
Read more
2 years ago · 114 likes · 39 comments · lyz

Your subscriptions help me support my independent newsletter that publishes journalism and essays written from a red state. This week, I wrote a story that few other outlets in the state wanted to tackle. And I know this because I talked to a lot of journalists about why they weren’t writing about it. And the reasons are not because other outlets are bad, but because I live in a state with a shrinking investment in media and the few journalists we have are overworked and drinking from a fire hose.

While working on that story, I received some vague legal threats about daring to write about a doctor who had previously been on trial for lascivious acts with a minor.

Your subscriptions help me pay to do the work I do.

Get 20% off for 1 year


And Now for Something Good:

  • A Nebraska cheerleader competes at state alone and gets a lot of love from the crowd. It’s just nice to see people do nice things.

  • I, for one, welcome my pig overlords. Listen, if these pigs want to hog-boss it up and take over America, they are welcome to try. This is a Democracy.

Twitter avatar for @GuardianUS
Guardian US @GuardianUS
‘Incredibly intelligent, highly elusive’: US faces new threat from Canadian ‘super pig’
theguardian.com‘Incredibly intelligent, highly elusive’: US faces new threat from Canadian ‘super pig’Northern states on alert for invasion of cross-bred pig that threatens flora and fauna – and is difficult to stop
8:02 AM ∙ Feb 20, 2023
2Likes2Retweets
  • RIP Medical Debt is an organization raising millions of dollars for medical debt relief and it’s good to see good people out there doing good things.

  • Look at these adorable penguins in their little huts. Housing is a basic human and avian right. 

  • Speaking of basic human rights.

    Twitter avatar for @_cingraham
    Christopher Ingraham @_cingraham
    The post-Dobbs era: there isn't a majority in favor of overturning Roe v. Wade in a single state. prri.org/research/abort…
    Image
    1:38 PM ∙ Feb 23, 2023
    1,987Likes805Retweets

What I Am Drinking:

This week has been a weird one. And I was parsing out all the reasons why and I think it mostly just comes down to the fact that I *extreme Kid Rock voice* haven’t seen the sun shine in three damn days.

It might also be because a certain Gen Z friend of mine convinced me to watch “The Last of Us” and it’s emotionally terrorizing me.

So, I decided: Food and booze can solve this problem. Listen, I do have a good therapist and friends. I hydrate. I run. I have pets. I have a weird little light that I turn on to make me happy. But sometimes life just calls for ordering a motherfucking boatload of sushi, making a vodka martini, and sitting your ass in front of the TV.

This is my best advice for life. It’s all I have for you. February will be over. But food is here and it is good. And make friends who are Gen Z who will destroy you emotionally. And, make and drink a vodka martini.

Okay. Now, I need you to tell me what food you eat when you are feeling sad and weird and seasonally affected.

1

This is all a joke. I don’t want my daughter to live in Chanhassen. I want her to live in Edina.

174
Share this post

Dingus of the Week: Sparkling Content Curation

lyz.substack.com
97
Share
97 Comments
Share this discussion

Dingus of the Week: Sparkling Content Curation

lyz.substack.com
DB
Writes Al-Anon for Outliers
Feb 24Liked by lyz

Apologies, because this is completely unrelated but I have to share with someone. My dad died in March 2020 and his ashes were parked in Grand Junction, Colorado for almost 3 years. The very nice funeral home folks got the package off yesterday and it turns out that human cremains can only be sent via US Postal Service. And my sister who is receiving the package is working today and none of us expected the package to arrive the very next day because that is not our experience. And now we three sisters are wondering if there’s going to be an Amazon porch thief who will steal the remains of my dad off my sister’s unprotected front porch in California. Supposedly there are stickers on the box about the contents. I guess maybe we should have asked more questions or planned this better and by we I mean me. Oops!

Expand full comment
Reply
Share
13 replies by lyz and others
Janelle
Feb 24Liked by lyz

Oh my god 🤣🤣🤣

“I am basically a god because my uterus performed the Biblically ordained function of heterosexual reproduction, which means: I had disappointing sex with a man who can’t even spell clitoris much less find one. Just as Jesus wants.”

I’m drinking vodka.

Expand full comment
Reply
Share
1 reply
95 more comments...
Top
New
Community

No posts

Ready for more?

© 2023 Lyz Lenz
Privacy ∙ Terms ∙ Collection notice
Start WritingGet the app
Substack is the home for great writing